Guess Who Called me Today?

Sitting on my couch doing a whole lot of nothing and the phone rings in my hand and the caller ID states “The Almost Date” guy!



I never replied to his last text, but I have read receipts turned on my phone and he has an iPhone so he knew I read it as soon as he sent it and never replied.  I had no intention of replying either because he was too tough on me about a phone call.

I admit grinning ear-to-ear over this silly little victory.

His voice was fabulous and exactly what I had hoped for.  We spoke for about 20 minutes or so and agreed that the phone call made the opportunity of meeting much more exciting, he said he was surprised that he engaged me so quickly.  He also admitted to surprising himself by wanting to meet me enough to break his own rules.

We are meeting on Tuesday and if all goes well, then again on Thursday of this week.

We easily agreed on a hip location for drinks and, again, if things go well, a fun place to have a casual dinner.  We are very aligned.

I will say, I’m happy he made the step and I didn’t have to do anything.  Our banter was fun and exciting and full of sexual innuendo without being over the top.  He is a research doctor and we discussed the types of human research he would be conducting.  Of course that led into the type of research he would like to do on me, and he asked all the right sexual questions without ever actually crossing the line into crass.

The good doctor lives in San Fran, so this will not be an ongoing anything, just the potential for 2 nights of fun this week.

I see a relatively busy week ahead and I can’t wait!



Author: Madeline Harper

My journey through divorce and an emotional and sexual reawakening. Love, laughter, friendships, family and heartbreak included. And there is sex, lots of it, so close your eyes and turn the page if that's not for you! While I started this blog as an endeavor to journal my thoughts and feelings in an attempt to better understand myself, it has become an amazing platform from which I have met some of the most interesting and wonderful people in my life. My path is often crooked, but I hope you will share in the journey with me.

15 thoughts on “Guess Who Called me Today?”

    1. I’m on the fence as well but I am willing to invest the “date”‘Tuesday and have drinks. I don’t have to have or do any more.

      More than anything else what I finally saw myself do was stand my ground – fun or no fun he didn’t comply and I walked away without one look over my shoulder.

      That is a rarity and I am glad I now understand what that small bit of empowerment feels like

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  1. Ah — disregard my comments on your earlier post. I’m behind in my reading, so I didn’t realize that he called you out of the blue. Have fun!


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